So after financial aide and family hassles I have decided to treat myself to a night out... I was checking to see where Only Lovers Left Alive was playing in NYC and it turns out it's playing at Upstate Films in Rhinebeck this week so I'm snagging my niece and we are going up a little early to poke around town and then see the movie. I've been ( Read more... )

I just wrote an update and it took about 45 minutes to write and a ton of emotional issues and LJ lost it and then tried to restore it and came up with the one from a few days ago... so in summary my ex ran off with another woman and moved to Virginia, left the current girlfriend behind with her 4 kids 2 of which are special needs living in the ( Read more... )

On the crap side I got a check for a class action lawsuit that finally settled, this is under the crap side because it's made out to my ex and myself. I need to bank tomorrow after work to get it sorted out since I already called the company that issued the check and they can't split it so I'll be seeing him for the first time in a few years. I am ( Read more... )

So after almost 5 years of living on less than half my salary, paying off my little bit of debt and my ex's tons of it, plus his school loans that I got stuck with when we split and he declared bankruptcy and stuck me with the crap I had co-singed for him I am almost totally free of debt except for the house and I told the mortgage company years ( Read more... )

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So I'm warning you this is a bit of a downer... I've been dealing with a lot.

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So I found out today that my grandmother was admitted to the hospital last night after a visit to the ER. Do you want to guess how I found out? I read about it on my mother's Facebook status... not the normal method of communication in my family but not the best way to find out either. I'm going to have to give her a call later to find out what's ( Read more... )

I'm still having issues sleeping, my ex has been trying to get in touch... WTF?!?! after 2 and a half years. Work has been hellish and everyone in the office is sick and cranky but me... I need a vacation ( Read more... )

and while I'm asking questions... what does the universe have against me? I just got an e-mail wishing me a happy anniversary (WTF!?!?!!?) while Lifehouse's Hanging by a Moment was playing on the radio... for those of you not in the know Dennis and I were considering that as our first dance at the wedding that never happened. I have no clue why I ( Read more... )

It's been years since I had to deal with this but last time it happened I tried to get a restraining order, I was refused because I was just threatened and never actually hurt... I'm getting hang ups from several numbers including ones that come up as unavailable. Not only am I getting them on my cell but I'm getting them on the work line too. ( Read more... )